A broken marriage and divorce involve many decisions – including the division of shared possessions… Like the dog(s). Who will take over Vuffi when you go your separate ways?
In most cases, both parties are probably very happy with their four-legged family member.
This means that many people choose a sharing arrangement for the dog in connection with divorce, just as is seen with children. A so-called 7/7 arrangement…
However, this only turns out to be a good idea in rare cases, and there are four main reasons for this:
- The dog doesn't understand the temporal concept of one-week-here and one-week-there. That way, the pack is never together.
- Commands, communication and behavior from “mom” and “dad” will therefore also change from week to week.
- The unstable everyday life often causes dogs to suffer from separation anxiety.
- Separation anxiety can manifest itself in the dog when it suddenly has problems being alone at home.
To meet the dog's needs, you can choose alternative solutions that do not affect the dog's everyday life in the same way:
- It is a good idea to choose one home for the dog – for example, with the party who has the most time for the dog.
- When there is a vacation or need for care, the dog can stay with the other party.
- It is important to try to create a stable life for the dog.
- Remember to decide whether the dog needs to get used to a new home before rushing off to work like before.
- Routines and security are key to keeping our dogs happy.
- Make sure there is time and space for the dog to get used to the new situation.
- Putting aside your own needs and possibly considering whether the best solution is to find a good and stable new home for the dog.
Read the story here about the Border Collie Cooper – who stood with one paw in every camp
Whether you choose one or two homes for your dog is of course an individual matter. The important thing is that you always prioritize the dog's needs and well-being over your own needs, no matter how difficult the decision may be to let go of your best friend.
Divorce – what about the dog?
A broken marriage and divorce involve many decisions – including the division of shared possessions… Like the dog(s). Who will take over Vuffi when you go your separate ways?
In most cases, both parties are probably very happy with their four-legged family member.
This means that many people choose a sharing arrangement for the dog in connection with divorce, just as is seen with children. A so-called 7/7 arrangement…
However, this only turns out to be a good idea in rare cases, and there are four main reasons for this:
To meet the dog's needs, you can choose alternative solutions that do not affect the dog's everyday life in the same way:
Read the story here about the Border Collie Cooper – who stood with one paw in every camp
Whether you choose one or two homes for your dog is of course an individual matter. The important thing is that you always prioritize the dog's needs and well-being over your own needs, no matter how difficult the decision may be to let go of your best friend.